We agreed on gift giving.

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dmann wrote:
FWIW, if I say I don't want or need anything, I mean it. No hidden agenda.

IME, almost every woman who says that means it when she says it.

But by the time the event comes -- even though she'll still insist that she wants nothing -- she will actually want a guy to have read her mind and come up with exactly the gift that she really wanted, but wouldn't ask for.

Woe betide the man who gets nothing or gets the wrong gift.