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OT: Living Trust or Will?
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I could use some opinions, suggestions and/or feedback...

my parents are in their mid-seventies. there have been some ongoing health concerns with my Dad (he is having his 4th surgery in 3 months this week - it's more or less indicative that his body is getting old and parts wear out). while I have several siblings, there is only one sibling besides myself that is capable of setting emotions aside to deal with the reality of the situation as a whole. what I mean by that is, my Mom is having a hard time - I don't want to cross any lines with her in the way of respect or get enmeshed with my folks, but I do want communications to remain open so that my brother and I can do our best to make sure that our parents' needs are met; I have communicated just that to my Mom. my brother and I have talked about discussing things like what my parents want in the event that one or both of them dies or becomes incapacitated - neither of us know. we know that there is a will. I have heard that a living trust is better. I am more concerned about knowing what they want in case they cannot communicate effectively at the time due to illness, grief, ... I don't know that this is even something that is appropriate for us to approach them about, but their health issues are more of an imminent inevitability now than before. and I am pretty sure that if my Dad dies before my Mom, it is going to be a very traumatic thing for her. I think that if we had some process in mind, it would make it easier for her ...

has anyone here had to deal with such a thing? if so, is this something to discuss with them or leave alone? if it is something to discuss, any recommendations as to where to look for advice to do so?

I appreciate your listening - thanks!

shiva
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OT: Living Trust or Will? - by shiva_shakti - 08-13-2006, 02:09 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by shiva_shakti - 08-13-2006, 02:55 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by fmgtech - 08-13-2006, 03:13 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by shiva_shakti - 08-13-2006, 03:16 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by Dick Moore - 08-13-2006, 03:44 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by Sam3 - 08-13-2006, 11:14 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by samintx - 08-13-2006, 02:03 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by wowzer - 08-13-2006, 02:24 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by Chupa Chupa - 08-13-2006, 05:51 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by shiva_shakti - 08-13-2006, 06:21 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by samintx - 08-13-2006, 07:58 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by loveshine - 08-14-2006, 01:24 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by fmgtech - 08-14-2006, 02:05 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by michaelb - 08-14-2006, 02:45 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by Phy - 08-14-2006, 03:53 AM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by h linamen - 08-14-2006, 05:19 PM
Re: OT: Living Trust or Will? - by shiva_shakti - 08-15-2006, 04:50 AM

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