01-12-2014, 04:30 PM
Some look at divorces as the end of a marriage and express sorrow. I look at them as the natural end of something that wasn't working, and gives both people the opportunity to move ahead, in the right direction, in their lives. The shame associated with divorce has to stop. It's a vestige of older mindsets and traditions and frankly, it's the last thing that those people need, is the feeling that others, especially family and friends, are judging them.
Saying "I'm sorry for your divorce" only makes people feel like failures.
So I'd say congratulations on your divorce, I know the last few years have been difficult but I'm proud that you were able to get yourself to a point where you're starting a new chapter in your life, and if you need any help and/or support along the way make sure you know that we'll be the first in line if need.
Just my opinion. It may not be a popular one but I've had a lot of friends go through divorce and none of them have been offended by my counsel or perspective.
Saying "I'm sorry for your divorce" only makes people feel like failures.
So I'd say congratulations on your divorce, I know the last few years have been difficult but I'm proud that you were able to get yourself to a point where you're starting a new chapter in your life, and if you need any help and/or support along the way make sure you know that we'll be the first in line if need.
Just my opinion. It may not be a popular one but I've had a lot of friends go through divorce and none of them have been offended by my counsel or perspective.