11-20-2015, 07:17 PM
Sorry for your loss. I know you will feel a calm soon you didn't expect. And I know exactly what you went through; my mom was a different person (not good) in the hospital and we were sometimes conflicted as to how to act/react for her care. The same thing had happened a few years earlier at her initial hospital stay. You'd think you'd always know what to do and why but there's no guarantee. That person you thought you knew isn't there right then but it's not their fault, the situation is nearly impossible.
Her last 2 months were miserable in and out of the hospital but we and she stayed with it so that we would know what was happening. When her main doc said everything had been tried we knew it was over and hospice at home was offered. It was mid December '13 and it gave her one last Christmas at home with family. My mom also found peace at the end with hospice care. I can't say enough good things about the experience and the people. PM me if you want to talk.
Her last 2 months were miserable in and out of the hospital but we and she stayed with it so that we would know what was happening. When her main doc said everything had been tried we knew it was over and hospice at home was offered. It was mid December '13 and it gave her one last Christmas at home with family. My mom also found peace at the end with hospice care. I can't say enough good things about the experience and the people. PM me if you want to talk.