Men's blazer question

[Onamuji]

john-o wrote:
Yes, but "clothing that is appropriate to the occasion" doesn't only mean a dark suit. I'm not talking about wearing my "good" black sneakers, not even close. I really don't understand how you all think that I must be talking about that level of dress if I'm not wearing a suit!?! I'm sorry, but that's just classic "old white male" thinking.

We're talking about a funeral. Yes, you should wear black. Regardless of race or gender or age.

Unless it's one of those weird theme parties that some people throw for their kick-off. In which case, a show of respect would be theme-appropriate.