12-30-2016, 12:46 AM
Are they truly your friends, "friends," or just acquaintances?
If they're truly your friends, then it's something you should probably accept, and chalk up to overall cost of an enjoyable outing.
If not, and you feel slighted, then make your menu selections based on whatever leaves you feeling less "cheated."
Every group has its way of handling this kind of thing. Some just divide the check, some do an individual accounting. If you want to help steer the conversation, then assume command of the check when it comes and subtly nudge it in the direction.
Ultimately, you could choose to see different people, or not to go at all, and save even more money.
Do you value the companionship, or the money?
If they're truly your friends, then it's something you should probably accept, and chalk up to overall cost of an enjoyable outing.
If not, and you feel slighted, then make your menu selections based on whatever leaves you feeling less "cheated."
Every group has its way of handling this kind of thing. Some just divide the check, some do an individual accounting. If you want to help steer the conversation, then assume command of the check when it comes and subtly nudge it in the direction.
Ultimately, you could choose to see different people, or not to go at all, and save even more money.
Do you value the companionship, or the money?