08-13-2006, 06:21 PM
good morning...
wow - I *really* appreciate all this information. this is very helpful - thank you.
two of my siblings have some serious issues and my family can be contentious with respect to drama in those areas... my mom can get caught up in things emotionally to where she shuts down and I think that if my Dad died, that is a likely reaction on her part. there is not a lot of money to speak of that I am aware of - if there is, I would be surprised. again, my main concern is just making sure that my parents needs are met and that there is as little drama as possible in the way of disputes - of course, there is a lot here outside of one's control, and that is understood.
regardless, all of the information here is information that I can use and look into. it gives me a place to start. timing is everything, as is the way this topic is conveyed...
thanks again for all the feedback!
shiva
wow - I *really* appreciate all this information. this is very helpful - thank you.
two of my siblings have some serious issues and my family can be contentious with respect to drama in those areas... my mom can get caught up in things emotionally to where she shuts down and I think that if my Dad died, that is a likely reaction on her part. there is not a lot of money to speak of that I am aware of - if there is, I would be surprised. again, my main concern is just making sure that my parents needs are met and that there is as little drama as possible in the way of disputes - of course, there is a lot here outside of one's control, and that is understood.
regardless, all of the information here is information that I can use and look into. it gives me a place to start. timing is everything, as is the way this topic is conveyed...
thanks again for all the feedback!
shiva