How do you deal with someone you just can't stand?!

[Donkey Hotay]

Try to find a copy of "Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst" by Brinkman & Kirschner

At Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Dealing-People-You...18?ie=UTF8&s=books

Or your local library / consortium.

Also consider "Coping with Difficult People: The Proven-Effective Battle Plan That Has Helped Millions Deal with the Troublemakers in Their Lives at Home and at Work" by Robert Bramson

http://www.amazon.com/Coping-Difficult-P...00-4212118

Pop-psych ? Maybe.
Useful life skill ? Definitely.
Works for me ? Uhhhh...