02-12-2009, 10:05 PM
It was a 16 year old girl being silly.
It wasn't right. She should be chastised for it. She has been. Now it's time to move on.
If she was 18, it would STILL be time to move on.
19? 21? Spend some more time on it... that's old enough to know better, and not "be silly".
25? 30+? Legitimate to hang on to the story for quite some time... let her serve as an example to the 16-20 year olds of behavior that is NOT OK.
But she's 16... acting like a silly girl with her friend. She's been called out on it. Time to move on.
It wasn't right. She should be chastised for it. She has been. Now it's time to move on.
If she was 18, it would STILL be time to move on.
19? 21? Spend some more time on it... that's old enough to know better, and not "be silly".
25? 30+? Legitimate to hang on to the story for quite some time... let her serve as an example to the 16-20 year olds of behavior that is NOT OK.
But she's 16... acting like a silly girl with her friend. She's been called out on it. Time to move on.