Believe it or not I don't like confrontation most of the time. That kept me from coming to this side for some time. But by the later Bush II presidency I was so frustrated that I felt a strong need to vent and there seemed to be a fair number of like-minded people here I could share my frustration with. But I have always tried to carefully consider the points made by people I may not agree with and I have learned quite a few things I wouldn't have if I hadn't tried. It's true that I haven't changed my positions much (because I'm usually right, of course, just like everybody else

), but it's still good, I think, to get a better understanding of those with whom I may disagree.
After a while, I realized that the main thing I was getting out of the forum other than a place to vent is that it provides an opportunity for me to help keep my critical thinking skills in some areas (what little skills of those I have) tuned up. That's why I tend to go off on riffs that are too long and/or involved for many people here - it's a way to exercise my brain. I get that those riffs bug some people and that is regrettable but then it should be easy enough to just ignore me if I bug someone, so I don't feel badly enough about it to stop.
I will admit, though, to having this fantasy that if I try hard to be reasonable and try to not do personal attacks that such efforts may help induce more thoughtful discussions from others in this forum. That fantasy regularly gets stomped on, but for some reason it's a pretty resilient fantasy, so I haven't given up yet.
I have looked for political forums that are better, but the sad thing is that they were all pretty much worse. I would miss this forum if Larry understandably decides he's had enough of it.