07-11-2025, 09:37 AM
Sorry to broach this topic, but I am currently in a heated discussion with my friends and want general input. I can't think of a better place to ask. 
When you were growing up (or even still today) did you and your family use the term “to make” to refer to going to the bathroom? Either by itself as in “I have to make” “Do you have to make?” “Did you make”? “Go make before we get in the car because we’re not stopping on the way!” “The neighbor’s dog made on our front lawn again” etc. or more descriptive to make (insert favorite childhood euphemism for excrement here)? Or the ever so ubiquitous term “make/made in one’s pants” If so or not, where were you from and what is your connection (if any) to Yiddish speakers or Ashkenazi Jews?
Growing up in downstate NY it is self understood to me that this is a universal thing and just what we would all (Jewish or not) say (to the point I specifically remember my kindergarten teacher chastising us for saying it and instead encouraging us to say “I need to use the bathroom”), but it’s come to my attention that this is a very specific regional/cultural thing and it’s quite uncommon among English speakers. Is this an Ashkenazi Jewish thing that filtered down from Yiddish? Has the usage become standard general NYC area regional dialect English regardless of demographics? Do people from other parts of the country/world commonly say this?
I will not post them here, but I found two videos of the comedian Vic Dibetito saying "make cocky" on youtube.
So did your family growing up say "make"? Did you commonly hear it? Or do you not have any idea what I'm even talking about and think I've completely lost my mind? Where are you from and so you have any Ashkenazi Jewish background or run in those circles if you care to share?

When you were growing up (or even still today) did you and your family use the term “to make” to refer to going to the bathroom? Either by itself as in “I have to make” “Do you have to make?” “Did you make”? “Go make before we get in the car because we’re not stopping on the way!” “The neighbor’s dog made on our front lawn again” etc. or more descriptive to make (insert favorite childhood euphemism for excrement here)? Or the ever so ubiquitous term “make/made in one’s pants” If so or not, where were you from and what is your connection (if any) to Yiddish speakers or Ashkenazi Jews?
Growing up in downstate NY it is self understood to me that this is a universal thing and just what we would all (Jewish or not) say (to the point I specifically remember my kindergarten teacher chastising us for saying it and instead encouraging us to say “I need to use the bathroom”), but it’s come to my attention that this is a very specific regional/cultural thing and it’s quite uncommon among English speakers. Is this an Ashkenazi Jewish thing that filtered down from Yiddish? Has the usage become standard general NYC area regional dialect English regardless of demographics? Do people from other parts of the country/world commonly say this?
I will not post them here, but I found two videos of the comedian Vic Dibetito saying "make cocky" on youtube.
So did your family growing up say "make"? Did you commonly hear it? Or do you not have any idea what I'm even talking about and think I've completely lost my mind? Where are you from and so you have any Ashkenazi Jewish background or run in those circles if you care to share?