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I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - DaviDC. - 08-31-2008
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I was starting to feel guilty for not inviting my friend to stay at my place, especially after reading the comments here when the phone rang. It was her letting me know they were passing through town & did I want to meet them somewhere. Did I know of a McDonald's close to an exit off I-59? Sure I did! I Googled the location & gave her the exit number & told her I'd meet them there.
I went to school with this woman at Mississippi State then at the University of South Alabama in Mobile. After graduating she moved into a garage apartment down the street from me & eventually we became best friends. Later she moved to New Orleans & I went to Birmingham via Minneapolis. The last time I saw her was during Mardi Gras in 1991 but we talk on the phone & email each other regularly. I was very concerned when I lost touch with her after Katrina but she called within a couple of weeks & told me she was fine & her house suffered very little damage. This didn't surprise me at all because that's just the sort of luck this woman has.
McDoanld's was packed out with evacuatees & I didn't have to wait long before they showed up. It was GREAT seeing her & I gave her a big hug then heard a gruff voice say, "You'd better stop manhandling my woman." It was her girlfriend, who I've spoken to on the phone a few few times but never met. From the look on her face, I couldn't help but believe she was serious. I laughed & extended my hand as she just stood there glaring at me. My friend introduced us but clearly the damage had been done. This woman had taken a total dislike towards me simply because I hugged an old friend! It wasn't like I was groping her in the parking lot!
The mega-bitch went inside to order food while we stayed outside talking then their traveling companion came out & I met her. They were on their way to her grandmother's farm on the north side of Gadsden so I didn't have to feel guilty about not inviting them to stay with me. Eventually the evil girlfriend came out & announced that they'd better get back on the road. I asked my friend to please call me when they got back to NO then came home.
I feel like I dodged a bullet on that one because I can't imagine having that evil creature stay in my house.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - AlphaDog - 08-31-2008
Often when our gut talks, it pays to listen, even if it doesn't always seem like the right thing to do. It does sound like this worked out well all the way around.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - Racer X - 08-31-2008
so, not to be indelicate, but the "male" lesbian in a couple was offended that a man touched her lesbian lover? Now THAT'S not a healthy relationship..........
good call listening to your gut.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - graylocks - 08-31-2008
[quote Racer X]so, not to be indelicate, but the "male" lesbian in a couple was offended that a man touched her lesbian lover? Now THAT'S not a healthy relationship..........
good call listening to your gut.
okay, without even going into the male" lesbian in a couple remark, keep in mind that evacuation is, oh - i don't know - highly stressful, they may have had a rip-roaring argument in the car, and there's probably a ton of other issues at play here that no one knows anything about.
DavidDC, sounds like you made a good call. the woman was extremely rude to you and though it may be understandable under the circumstances, it's still not excusable in my book.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - vision63 - 08-31-2008
Well that was an interesting meetup.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - BigGuynRusty - 08-31-2008
She hated you because you have a penis.
I have several Lipstick Lesbian friends, almost all their lovers hate all males.
BGnR
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - Black Landlord - 09-01-2008
Some people don't travel well.
The gf knew you were gay, right?
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - Jimmypoo - 09-01-2008
You apparently have one, yet most people hate you.... How does that work out? Is it the lack of testes or what?
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - ka jowct - 09-01-2008
That "my woman" stuff is a turn-off coming from a man. Doesn't get any more palatable coming from a female partner. I hope your friend isn't in an abusive relationship.
Re: I'm SO glad I didn't invite my friend to stay with me! - incognegro - 09-01-2008
(why are lesbians attracted to women who look, dress, and act like men?)
just curious.