I don't remember if you do business with Costco or not, but they do have a pretty nice Whirlpool. It's much as Robert M. describes, although it does come with an ice maker. As you're learning, you might get stuck with that in order to get the other features you want.
I ordered a refrigerator from them in November, and I was happy with the buying experience. The cost includes shipping to your home, installation, and hauling away the old monstrosity. I know around here getting rid of old refrigerators is very awkward and costs a minimum of $25. Watching the old one carted off at the same time the new one was delivered was great. I think they originally told me it would be about two weeks before I'd get it, but it was actually more like five days.
If I was in the market for a new fridge for the house, I'd probably get something like this. My first new refrigerator, from back in the '60s had a bottom freezer, and I'm glad to see the manufacturers have swung back around to those again.
Here's a link to the Costco one: (I hope.)
http://www.costco.com/Browse/Product.asp...d=11250927&whse=BC&Ne=4000000&eCat=BC|103|4546|4551&N=4000034&Mo=9&pos=4&No=0&Nr=P_CatalogName:BC&cat=4551&Ns=P_Price|1||P_SignDesc1&lang=en-US&Sp=C&ec=BC-EC11887-Cat4546&topnav=
Edit: Boy that link sure turned out looking weird, although it works. ???