A little advice, please

[anonymouse1]

My wife and I are working on discipline issues for our nine-year-old daughter, who sometimes acts rudely (calling names, shrieking when it's not appropriate, hitting when she's angriest, etc.). The issue is finding punishments that we can give her immediately, as opposed to the "you don't get any screen time this weekend" variety (we don't allow screen time on school days).

We don't do spanking, so that's out. Any suggestions?

Thanks!