01-02-2017, 06:16 AM
Two books that might be helpful are "Perfect Parenting and other Myths" by Frank Main and for a child that tends to be more oppositional-defiant the book "The Explosive Child" by Ross Green is very good. Do keep in mind that all behavior serves a need of the child. Whether that is to obtain something (e.g., attention, a desired activity or object, etc.) or to avoid something (a stressful situation, a difficult task, etc.). The child's need is there. The goal should be for the child to use a more socially appropriate way to get that need met. A person may provide negative consequences for inappropriate behavior, but it is much, much more important to provide clear expectations/ clearly stated desired behavior and to provide acknowledgement /praise when the child demonstrates that desired behavior.
As stated by several MRF members. Consistency is critically important.
Good Luck!
Dave
As stated by several MRF members. Consistency is critically important.
Good Luck!
Dave
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