09-02-2008, 11:25 PM
[quote ka jowct][You don't have to be a lesbian to relate to that. ... And I'm handier about things like putting up drywall than my SO.
True, but my point is there is balance in the relationship, whether it's in a very "traditional" heterosexual sense or not. In your case, there is a balance, but it just is a bit less traditional. Heck, I was the one who would always rather be outside working on some project while my husband was in the house cooking dinner. But there was still a balance, because he enjoyed the cooking and I didn't.
True, but my point is there is balance in the relationship, whether it's in a very "traditional" heterosexual sense or not. In your case, there is a balance, but it just is a bit less traditional. Heck, I was the one who would always rather be outside working on some project while my husband was in the house cooking dinner. But there was still a balance, because he enjoyed the cooking and I didn't.