04-15-2009, 08:11 PM
Racer X wrote:
Once again, my ex lost 1/3 of her weight. been there, watched it, helped make it happen.
but i think it's arrogance to generalize that to absolutely everyone else. i worked hard to reduce my weight by 1/4 - 50 lbs. i know what it took for me to do it. i don't assume that all obese people have access to the same resources or fortitude to do so. yes, i do wish it were otherwise but compassion allows for a less judgmental view.